Fellowship in a church should never be dependent on
believing the same things. We are the family of Christ because of our mutual, personal, and experiential
knowledge of Jesus. In other words, our eternal fellowship with each is based on
our mutual love and knowledge of Jesus Christ, not necessarily what we
believe the Scriptures to teach.
The apostles made a clear distinction in their writings between
knowledge and
beliefs. There were just a few things which they "knew" and were absolutely persuaded about by God. The best synopsis of this knowledge is found in Paul's letter to young Timothy when he said,
Nevertheless I am not ashamed: for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that He is able to keep that which I have committed" (II Timothy 1:12).
Paul
knows whom he has
believed. He knows Christ. I
know Christ. You
know Christ. Paul and I and you all
know that Christ is able, and we are incapable. We
know Him. This knowledge binds us together in eternal fellowship.
But we believe so much more than we know.
Atheists deny that we can even know God. They say knowing God is a matter of faith, not knowledge. To some degree, the atheist would be correct. The writer of Hebrews says,
"And without faith, it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to Him must believe that He exists and that He rewards those who earnestly seek Him." (Hebrews 11:6).
However, the atheist is missing the key reward for coming to God through faith in Jesus Christ. God rewards those who seek Him with
the knowledge that He exists. In other words, those who seek God will meet Him. The prophet declares, "Prepare to meet thy God." He gives no room for a belief there is no god. You must seek Him, prepare to meet Him, and find Him.
To know Christ is to know God.
We
know there is a God, for we have met Him. We were trapped in our own failures and inabilities when we heard the good news. We came to faith in the God who made provision for us in Jesus Christ.
We
know God.
But, again, I
believe so much more.
In my ministry,
I live what I know and
I teach what I believe. "For I am crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me." (
Galatians 2:20).
In my ministry,
I fellowship with those who know Christ, regardless if they believe what I teach.
This is a lesson that a church must learn for a church to thrive.
We should teach what we believe with passion. We should teach what we believe with conviction.
But there is a difference between knowing and believing.
My brothers and sisters in Christ who know God should be free to believe differently than I, but we should always seek to continue in genuine fellowship, regardless of our different beliefs.
Our fellowship is relational. We share in common the Person we know, not the things we believe.
Let Me Illustrate
(1). I believe and teach Jesus died for a particular people, but I know Jesus.
The Bible calls these people God's 'elect,' or Christ's 'bride,' or His 'church,' or 'believers,' or many other things. Christ's people are from every nation, tribe, kindred and tongue who have an inheritance in heaven, but they are a particular people God chooses to save out of the entire sinful human race.
I don't
know Jesus died just for the elect. I have friends who believe Jesus died for every single human being who has ever lived, those in hell and in heaven, and as a result, they are hopeful that one day God will - in the end - bring every sinner into union with Christ. They hold out a hope that somehow, someway, and someday, Jesus will empty hell, and every sinner will be redeemed because everyone will see the glory of the Son who actually redeemed them.
I teach what I believe (particular redemption), but I don't "know" that what I believe about particular redemption is true. One day we will all find out. My belief in particular redemption is not shaken by those who oppose it. My belief in particular redemption does not form my identity.
My fellowship with other believers is not defined by our mutual faith in particular redemption. I don't know that particular redemption is true - but I believe it.
What binds me in fellowship to others is
our mutual knowledge of God through our faith in Jesus Christ.
(2). I believe and teach that the earth is a young earth, but I know Jesus.
I don't know that the earth is young. When I teach through Genesis expositional, as I have done three times, I teach that God created the earth at most 6,000 years ago - because that is what I believe. However, I don't "know" that God created the earth 6,000 years ago.
I wasn't there.
And, I understand how some can teach
the Bible portrays an old earth and a local flood.
The Scriptures can be interpreted in various ways regarding the age of the earth. My belief in a young earth is not threatened by those brothers in Christ who believe in an old earth. My fellowship with those who know God through Jesus Christ is not limited to those who believe in a young earth.
I am firm in my personal belief in a young earth, but I am honest enough to say I don't "know" the earth is young.
One of these days we all will "know."
Until then, we fellowship around the Person of Jesus Christ.
(3). I believe and teach that most of the prophecies of Scripture have been fulfilled, but I know Christ.
I am what some would call a partial preterist. Preterism is based on a Latin word meaning
"having been fulfilled." I believe the prophecies of Revelation were fulfilled in 70 A.D.
I believe in an early dating of the writing of Revelation (pre-70 A.D.). I believe the prophecies of Jesus in Matthew 24 were fulfilled in 70 A.D. within a generation of when Jesus spoke them. I believe that the prophecies of Daniel were fulfilled through Alexander the Great, the birth of Jesus, and the destruction of Jerusalem.
But I don't
know that the prophecies of Scripture have all been fulfilled completely.
I am able to teach all four major eschatological positions (premillennialism, amillennialism, postmillennialism, preterism) to the people of Emmanuel as if I believed each one. In fact, I've done exactly that in the past, and at the conclusion of the study, I told them to choose the eschatological position they believed reflected most closely the position of the biblical authors.
Then I reminded them our fellowship is based on our personal
knowledge of Christ, not our mutual beliefs in other matters.
(4). I believe and teach that God made women equal to men in authority, but I know God.
I see the prophetesses in Scripture prophesying, Priscilla teaching Apollo theology, Deborah reigning over Israel and judging God's people, and I have no problem with women teaching men today, or women holding positions of authority over men today, or believing women are gifted by the Spirit of God just the same as the Spirit gifts men today.
Sure, there are different roles for men and women (women give birth, men don't), but the idea that a woman cannot have equal "authority to a man" is completely foreign to my understanding of the Bible and the purposes of God.
But here is where it gets sticky. Unlike my belief in a young earth, particular redemption, and partial preterism, my belief in the equality of women has a corresponding action. Belief in the equality of women affects my treatment of women. Am I open for women to be in positions of spiritual leadership? Yes. Can women teach the Bible to men in our church? Yes, and they do. Do I believe women can teach Hebrew to future preachers? Yes.
Again, my view of equality is based on what I
believe the Scriptures teach.
Could I be wrong?
Of course. God may not have given to women equal authority or equal spiritual abilities to men. If that is the case, then my interpretation of Scripture is leading me to place women in very compromising, uncomfortable and possibly untenable positions.
But my actual experiences have been just the opposite. Every teacher, every leader, every proclaimer of Jesus Christ who happens to be female seems to me to be just as capable and equal to men.
My point remains. Christian fellowship with brothers and sisters who disagree with me on this belief I teach should still occur. But sometimes it is difficult for Christians to fellowship when differing beliefs lead to opposite actions.
In other words, one can debate ecclesiology, eschatology, creation, and atonement, but when a church serves the Lord's supper to a non-church member in front of a Landmarker, or when a church places a woman as a teacher in front of a patriarch, then some seek to
break fellowship. Why?
I'm not sure that we have spent enough time teaching followers of Jesus the difference between
knowing something and
believing something.
The people in the church I pastor understand that we all should be comfortable fellowshipping with other Christians that have differing beliefs. We fellowship around knowing Christ and Him crucified, but we are free to disagree in our beliefs. There is in our church, for lack of a better phrase,
soul freedom.
(5). I believe and teach that God is absolutely sovereign, but I know God.
I believe that not one atom, one molecule, one event, one person, or even one devil is allowed to move or act without his permission, prohibition, persuasion, or providence.
There is nothing that is hidden from God or too hard for God.
He does as He pleases, always as He pleases, only as He pleases. His purposes shall be fulfilled, and he shall accomplish everything according to His purposes.
But I could be wrong.
God could not know the future because the things of the future do not yet exist and thus are not knowable, as Greg Boyd teaches.
God could be dependent upon the will of man as Arminius taught.
But I teach what I believe, so I teach He is sovereign over all things, even the will of man and the future events of the world.
But it doesn't bother me to fellowship with someone who knows God but believes differently regarding His providence.
One of these days I am hopeful that those of us who have very specific beliefs will come to the place where we are neither threatened by, nor seek to separate from, those Christians who
believe differently than we.